Pronouns
Let’s Talk About Pronouns
Let’s Talk About Pronouns (readable PDF)
What are Pronouns?
Pronoun: any of a small set of words in a language that are used as substitutes for nouns or noun phrases and whose referents are named or understood in the context – Merriam-Webster Dictionary.
| Subject | Object | Pronoun |
|---|---|---|
| she | her | hers |
| he | him | his |
| they | them | theirs |
| zie “zee” |
zir “zer” |
zirs “zers” |
| sie “see” |
hir “here” |
hirs “zers” |
| zie “zee” |
zir “zer” |
zirs “zers” |
Why are Pronouns so important?
As the definition demonstrates, pronouns provide understanding and context when speaking to others. Many also see pronouns as a label, and to use the correct pronouns when addressing someone shows respect. Neglecting to use someone’s preferred pronouns can make that person feel disrespected, invalidated, dismissed and alienated.
How do I use Pronouns inclusively?
Pronouns often carry a categorization of gender. You might have heard these referred to as “masculine” and “feminine” pronouns such as: she/her/hers and he/him/his.
Many people do not identify as strictly masculine or feminine and it is best not to assume that you know someone’s gender identity. Thus we need gender-inclusive pronouns such as: they/them/theirs.
Wait… there’s more!
In addition to they/them/theirs, there are many other gender-inclusive pronouns out there! Here are a few that you might hear and how you pronounce them, however, we understand this is not a complete list.
Tips
- Introduce your pronouns when meeting someone for the first time.
*Putting yourself out there will allow others to feel comfortable to do the same. - Include pronouns on email signatures, nametags and meeting introductions.
*Incorporating inclusive language helps to create a culture of belonging. - Do not assume you know someone’s gender identity and pronouns: if you have never met them – use they/them/theirs or inquire about pronouns. This is a simple way to show you want to cultivate an environment that respects all gender identities.
*Remember it is a privilege to not have to worry about what pronouns someone will use for you and not everyone shares that privilege. - You might be asking yourself “What if I make a mistake?”. We all slip up sometimes. The best thing to do if you use the incorrect pronouns is to apologize and use the correct pronouns moving forward.
*Try not to make a big deal or bring extra attention to the situation.
Questions?
Contact the Office of Campus Life, [email protected].